Wednesday 14 November 2012

The Power of A Relation...


Relationships...
           Committments..
                                  Love..
 

They add colors to life !! Make it magical and worth living !! People have even felt butterflies in their tummy... :D 
Every second in life is like a seashell on the sea shore. In the first look, all are alike, but when you observe closely, each one is different, has its own beauty and splendor. 
Parents..friends...buddies..that speacial some one.. a life with no love is not worth living. But many a times, we take our relationships as granted. We forget the otehr has a heart too, that pains when hurt. 

              "Stop doing the things for someone when they become'EXPECTED', instead of being 'APPRECIATED'.. "
Relationships are sensitive. They need to be handled with care and affection. Homo Sapiens are born with feelings. The words once spoken, you cannot just gather them and gulp back. THINK..before you say.
When things turn bad, its never the end. You cannot make an earthen pot without baking it. Hard times eventually make the relation strong. You just need to LISTEN SILENTLY..,speak up your words, share your thoughts, ponder upon the situation and calmly think of a solution.


              "The key to a successful relationship is TALK about the problems, and not to ignore them.. "
 Most of us find it hard to express our feelings, because voicing out what we feel is difficult for most people. More often when we try to say what we want to say, we end up being tongue-tied, misunderstood or worse, we end up saying the wrong things. So, instead of risking the worst, we tend to keep everything to ourselves. But the truth is open communication contributes to good relationships. Nobody can peep into your mind and see what you are thinking. Ignoring the problems will just amplify them. If something is killing you inside, better speak it up!! And have to courage to listen. God gave us 2 ears to listen and 1 mouth to speak (Imagine the opposite..lol..)

The most wonderful thing about life is that it never stops to surprise you. Whenever  you are stressed, everything seems dull and gloomy, you find no reason to live, you never know when the next second will turn the things upside down and make everything beautiful.  And when you are all happy and cheerful, life will throw you to some hard stuff, making you realize how powerful each second can be.
Never lose hope..Speak your mind..express your feelings..love and never let the charm in you fade away..!!!!
:)